The traditional anniversary flowers are carnations for the 1st year, lily of the valley for the 2nd, sunflowers for the 3rd, hydrangeas for the 4th and daisies for the 5th, with roses for the 15th and yellow roses and violets for the 50th. The full list below covers each year from 1 to 15 plus the big milestones, along with gift ideas that work when the exact flower is out of season.
Anniversary flowers by year chart
This is the list most widely shared by florists in North America. Lists vary a little from source to source, so treat it as a guide for inspiration, not a rule.
| Year | Flower | Year | Flower |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1st | Carnation | 9th | Bird of paradise |
| 2nd | Lily of the valley | 10th | Daffodil |
| 3rd | Sunflower | 11th | Tulip |
| 4th | Hydrangea | 12th | Peony |
| 5th | Daisy | 13th | Chrysanthemum |
| 6th | Calla lily | 14th | Dahlia |
| 7th | Freesia | 15th | Rose |
| 8th | Lilac | 20th | Aster |
| 25th | Iris | 30th | Lily |
| 28th | Orchid | 40th | Gladiolus |
| 50th | Yellow rose and violet |
The early years: 1 to 5
1st, carnation: a long-lasting flower for young love that is meant to last. 2nd, lily of the valley: small, fragrant and seasonal in spring, so it can be hard to find as a cut flower. 3rd, sunflower: warmth and loyalty. 4th, hydrangea: big, generous blooms for a relationship that is growing. 5th, daisy: simple joy and faithfulness.
If the exact flower is not available, choose a bouquet in its colours, or pair a few stems of it with roses. Hydrangeas and roses together are a popular way to mark the 4th year.
Years 6 to 15
The calla lily (6th) is elegant and sculptural, freesia (7th) is famous for its scent, and lilac (8th) blooms in late spring around Ottawa. The 10th year's daffodil stands for new beginnings, and the 11th year's tulip is easy to celebrate here if your anniversary lands in May, during the Canadian Tulip Festival. Peonies (12th) are at their best in late spring and early summer. Roses mark the 15th, and you can never go wrong with them in any year.
Milestone anniversaries: 20, 25, 30, 40 and 50
- 20th, aster: patience and love that has grown wiser.
- 25th, iris: faith and hope, a good match for a silver anniversary in blue and white.
- 28th, orchid: rare beauty and refinement.
- 30th, lily: devotion. If the couple has a cat, skip true lilies, which are extremely toxic to cats even in small amounts. Choose another flower or a preserved rose arrangement instead.
- 40th, gladiolus: strength of character.
- 50th, yellow roses and violets: joy and faithfulness, fitting for a golden anniversary.
For big milestones, many couples prefer a gift that lasts. Preserved roses keep their colour for up to three years, and foil number balloons make the year impossible to miss at a party.
How to make anniversary flowers personal
- Match the year: include the traditional flower, or its colours, and mention it on the card.
- Use roses for the count: one rose for every year together works well up to about 24. See how many roses to give.
- Write it down: add your message at checkout and it is hand-written on a card.
- Time it: order early in the day for same-day delivery on many arrangements, or call or text 819-208-3034 for a custom piece.
We deliver across Ottawa, including Kanata, Stittsville, Barrhaven and Nepean, with delivery priced by distance from our studio in Carp, near Kanata. See more ideas on our anniversary flowers and gifts page.
Frequently asked questions
What is the flower for a 1st anniversary?
The carnation. It stands for young, lasting love and comes in many colours.
What flower is for the 25th anniversary?
The iris. Blue and white irises suit a silver anniversary well.
What flowers are for a 50th wedding anniversary?
Yellow roses and violets. Golden yellow roses are the easiest way to mark the golden anniversary.
What if the anniversary flower is out of season?
Choose a bouquet in the same colours, or send roses, which are available year-round and suit every anniversary.
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